The Month I Asked Everyone: “Whatcha readin’?” // A Discussion Post

So, I work two jobs. Job numero uno (i.e. full time) is at a library where I’m a circulation clerk. It’s fun! And such a different pace (even on busy days) from any of my previous food service or retail related jobs. Sometimes I talk with the patrons about their reading choices, but there’s usually other things to chat about. There’s a privacy aspect to not necessarily engaging every patron in what they’re reading (intellectual freedom is a huge part of what makes a library such an important space // a patron should be able to get the information they need without comment). As well as an obviously that’s the book you’re reading at the moment because I’m checking it out to you oooh careful with those deckled edges honey aspect. So it’s a given that patrons are there to read, or to utilize our internet and printer, and may not necessarily want to shoot the breeze about their reading habits.

Job part deux is at Trader Joe’s, a national chain of smaller grocery stores with an emphasis on being genuinely friendly (i.e. not a lil’ sh*t). It’s a fab second job. And the one I prefer to ask people in my checkout line:

*~*~*What have you been reading lately?*~*~*


It’s a fun question loaded with so much potential and the timing works out great for a little chat with a stranger, if they happen to have an example ready when I put them on the spot, whilst I’m Tetris-ing six locally sourced squashes, two cans of jackfruit, 49 grinders of Everything But the Bagel Seasoning, and a partridge in a money tree into their bag.

So behold: this post is inspired from a month where I took special note of what people shared with me about their current reads.


75% Responded with “Uhhh, Nothing.”

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Heh, and that’s where I switch to film or TV or “oh look it sure is hot out there my dude!” so they may reply “It sure is! I hate it!” and then I can be like “AhhhhhhhhLURVEeet heheglobalwarmingCOUGH” because I truly do prefer warmer weather but now I’m running out of things because books and meterological observations and memes are sometimes all I got. And you can’t just panic moonwalk away from a primary register, nope.

Two people talked over their partner to be all “Oh they don’t read!”

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Like, ouch, no need to call someone out for anything like that? You’re buying some yummy taco fixings together, don’t you want to eat them later with hearts in your eyes, not betrayal?

At least one person a week talked about Big Little Lies

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Imagine what Reese?? Like the cast for the show sounds phenomenal, and I learned this month that the book is set in Australia which I had zero clue, and I was always kinda intrigued but also not? Moriarty’s books cross my library desk all the time, and I’ve perused them but… With four recommendations in as many weeks, I’ll add this one to my TBR, but I don’t know when I’ll get to it lol. (And now my mind is pinging that the Sharp Objects miniseries IS HAPPENING with such a queen Amy Adams in it ruhroh that I want to get to watching it right now // that’s probably Flynn’s best book, just saying.)

I think I got someone to try Clive Barker!! And somehow I’ve never heard of John Wyndham

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I mean, I’d watched adaptations of his stuff, but never paid attention, and I guess maybe one day I’ll read his words? There’s so much better, not racist/more diverse, horror these days, though. Not saying that’s what I’d encounter, buuuuut.

A POC of somewhere around 30, maybe, I’m trash with ages, was hesitant and then really happy to share that he was reading manga

“Well, normally I don’t share ’cause sometimes people judge, but since you asked!!” It was just a really sweet moment. And now I have three manga recs! And I was like Delicious in Dungeeeeeeeeeooooooon @ him and it was fun to fan over a genre you don’t always really see in, ya know, a checkout line at a random grocery.

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literally this is how the conversation felt 😀

Only one person judged me for my reading choices (young adult contemporary specifically Emergency Contact (which I still need to finish whoops!))

And he was an old crotchety white dude so he don’t matter!

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just shoo my dude

A little girl went on and on about a new beloved book of hers while carefully placing every sticker on her little brother’s body and I still don’t really know what she was talking about but I died from her cute

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Seriously, kids are the sweetest and sometimes you just gotta let them blather on and do their thing. THEY’RE LEARNING and being braver than most and we should all be like kids because they’re so open and this is coming from someone who does not want her own kids (and if I do I’m adopting, in 84 years, when I’m in my cyborg body and have sufficient funds to care for the bean). ANYWHO kids + reading = magic.

Overall, asking strangers about their current bookish adventures was fun and interesting and a great way (for myself) to engage with others

Season 2 Netflix GIF by Queer Eye
I very recently watched all of Queer Eye (is it obvi?) and they (along with my Hufflepuff friends out there) are so inspiring // to see the good in every person and to chance making a connection with someone across the (grocery) aisle


Have you ever asked someone in the wild about their current read? Have you made a friend this way? Are there any other ways that you interact with people IRL in regards to books and how great they are? Do you think it matters to strike up these types of connections?

6 thoughts on “The Month I Asked Everyone: “Whatcha readin’?” // A Discussion Post

  1. That’s a really terrific idea. That should be an ice-breaker for sure one day & not just for bookstore interviews lol. Personally, I don’t really judge anyone for not reading. I find it refreshing sometimes because I’m only a part-time bookworm. But I understand it’s really lovely to have a common interest which makes it far easier to bond.

    Big Little Lies is the one of the very, very few books in the last few years that was unputdownable (as was Sharp Objects) & it realistically captured issues we as women face & it helps that the characters are so different to each other lol. Plus, Reese’s character is hilarious both in the books & the show. I think you’ll enjoy it, not sure how much though lol.

    I need to at least watch one episode of QE by next month. I’m making that a goal.

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    1. Thanks, Sophia! For me, at TJ’s, it’s just a quick Q&A thing that never gets old because there’s always such possibility in it.

      Ohhhhh your rec for Big Little Lies has made me put it on hold at my library. And I’m only 5th in the queue!

      Queer Eye is ugh, so good, and very binge-worthy. ❤

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  2. ”…does not want her own kids (and if I do I’m adopting, in 84 years, when I’m in my cyborg body and have sufficient funds…”
    And I thought I was the only one!
    Anyways, if a stranger asked me what I’m reading I’d blankly stare at them and then if they’re still there after several awkward seconds (which subjectively feel like an hour), I’ll give them a generic answer like harry potter or sherlock holmes or something.
    However if a family/friend asked me this question I’d run to grab the book first and then sit down to start telling them the whole story so far, with quotes, and go on and on in detail about the book or manga until their eyes glazed over and they either escaped the room or dropped off into dreamland 😊

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